i choose me

How many times have you made a decision that later left you pissed off or resentful? If that sounds familiar, this Spark of Wisdom is for you. Choosing yourself is the antithesis of pleasing people, which is a short-term way to get approval or acceptance. People pleasing has devastating costs including eroding our self-respect, self-trust, and self-love. It’s also confusing for those you’re in relationships with because they don’t know where you stand if you change to accommodate others. This is way too high a price to pay for someone’s approval 😒

As you cultivate the practice of choosing yourself by living in alignment with your beliefs and values, you’ll find deep authentic connections.  It feels really good to say I chose Me, so say it loud and proud!