Disappoint them

Calling all people pleasers. If you find yourself exhausted from trying to make everyone else happy, keep reading. Most of us learn at an early age the importance of pleasing our caregivers. We learn to diminish or disregard our own needs and focus instead on pleasing others to ensure the safety of their connection and care. This can become a soul crushing pattern of abandoning ourselves.

This Spark of Wisdom reminds us of the importance of making decisions that align with our beliefs and values rather than shapeshifting to make others feel more comfortable. In addition to getting to be authentically you, your self-respect, self-trust, and self-love will skyrocket! So go ahead, disappoint them!